Positive vs Negative Focus

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Positive vs Negative Focus

No Comments 28 October 2009

by Jason Kendall

Look at any Best Seller list in bookshops today, and it’ll
be populated with autobiographies of the rich and famous.
From glamour models to footballers to empire builders, they
all have a different story to tell, but each has a common
thread – they overcame adversity by focusing on the
positives.

That’s the way of the world; life’s achievers allow positive
reasons why ‘they can’ to flood their consciousness, and
drown out negative reasons why they can’t.

This attitude to studying is paramount for the student. To
successfully complete a training program, an optimistic
mindset is the biggest tool in a trainee’s workbox. A
positive approach brings about all sorts of possibilities,
circumstances, answers and opportunities to achieve. By
contrast, a pessimistic outlook blocks our learning
receptors and thwarts creativity .

This is because of our Reticular Activation System – a
mechanism that automatically tells our brain what to focus
on. Over our lives, we’ve experienced a huge number things
that no longer remain in the forefront of our minds – the
majority of what we’ve learned moves from our conscious mind
to our sub-conscious mind, a kind of cupboard that stores
all our past beliefs and knowledge.

When we attempt to do something consciously, our Reticular
Activation System (RAS) will go through our sub-conscious
mind for any associated information it holds, and bring it
into focus. As we’re walking down a road, we’re made aware
only of things that are relevant to us – anything else is
just background noise.

Therefore, if our conscious mind has generally been
transferring positive, upbeat messages to our sub-conscious
mind, then that’s what it will send back. But if our
sub-conscious has been fed a bunch of defeatist, downbeat
messages, then equally that’s also what will come back.

Achievers, it appears, are able to manipulate the messages
streamimg through to their sub-conscious minds. They do this
by choosing the exact messages the conscious mind sends and
deliberately programming their RAS. As such, it’s an
essential tool for achieving goals, as the sub-conscious
mind can’t tell the difference between real or imaginary
events.

In other words, we need to create a very specific picture of
our goal in our conscious mind. The RAS will then pass this
on to our subconscious – which, as it believes everything
it’s told, will then help us achieve the goal. It does this
by making us aware of all the relevant information which
otherwise might have stayed as ‘background noise’.

The writer Napoleon Hill said that we can achieve any
realistic goal if we keep focusing on that goal, and stop
dwelling on any negative thoughts about it. Obviously, if we
keep thinking that we can’t hit a goal, our subconscious
will help us not to achieve it.

Climbing the Ladder of Success – You Can’t Keep a Good Man Down

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Climbing the Ladder of Success – You Can’t Keep a Good Man Down

No Comments 05 October 2009

“Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better.” – Jim Rohn

The best way of climbing the ladder of success is by outgrowing the situation that we are presently holding. A person’s worth leaves clues and these clues don’t go unnoticed. Sooner or later, we gravitate to our level of competence.

Contrary to popular belief, it is not crowded at the top. There is plenty of room available just waiting for someone ready to fill the positions. The problem is not the lack of room; it’s the lack of people ready to fill the shoes that need to be filled.

Until we are ready to accept that belief, our chances of climbing the stairs of corporate or entrepreneurial success are considerably affected. No real progress is possible until a situation has been correctly assessed and established.

The problem is that we tend to follow the Pollyanna principle also called, “Positivity bias.” That principle says that, when doing a self-evaluation, we have a tendency to focus on our strong points instead of doing an inclusive survey of our real competences. In other words, we may not be as good as we think that we are.

In today’s fast paced world, being good at what we do is not good enough to rise in the corporate hierarchy. We are expected to be good; that’s what we get paid for. Being excellent will not do it either. Being excellent only means that we are filling our present place. It’s no reason to be promoted or to see an increase in our entrepreneurial revenues.

To be noticed, to be invited to fill a higher and more rewarding position, we must be outstanding. That is where the money is. That’s where the train that leads to the top starts. That’s where we get the wings that will allow us to soar above the crowd and reach the rarified air of the mountaintop of success.

Jim Rohn said it best, “Formal education will make you a living; self education will make you a fortune.” It is by working every day to improve ourselves that we can acquire the competence to become outstanding and in doing so, become a magnet for opportunities and advancement.

The self-education that Jim Rohn talks about is not restricted to our area of expertise. It also encompasses the entire gamut of the disciplines covered in the self-improvement world. It’s about life’s philosophy, character building, communication and relationships along with the multitude of subjects being covered in the self-help movement.

Self-education is about personal growth in all its facets. It’s about learning how to make finer distinctions and about taking wiser decisions. It’s about better self-control and about leadership abilities. In one word, it about becoming a better and more complete person. Smarter and wiser.

Greater success is the natural result of inner growth and self-actualization. Just as the tree depends on quality soil to reach maximal growth, success depends on the abundance of the intellect to bloom and flourish.

Make no mistake about it. There is plenty of room for advancement in the corporate world and plenty of room for growth in the entrepreneurial world. What is needed is not more room it is more qualified candidates.

There are plenty of opportunities out there just waiting for those who have the courage and wherewithal to spend some time every day on self-improvement. Victory belongs to those who have earned it – not to those waiting for some lucky star that won’t ever show up.

College vs. Self-Education

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College vs. Self-Education

No Comments 22 September 2009

Thanks Jim Rohn. I love the quote from the book, Twelve Pillars, “College will make you a living. Self education will make you a fortune.” This idea has set us free.

I have been fortunate enough to have a college education. In fact, I spent almost ten years dedicated to the system that would give me the “brass ring”. College is an expensive venture. You are required pay up front for education that you apply later. In some cases, people rack up $100,000+ bill that they have to scramble to pay off with their new “job”. I know people who are skimming by trying to get the 10+ year debt paid off. I was also lucky enough to study a topic I absolutely love, art, more specifically graphic design. In school I was a sell out to all the other fine artists for “making a living” off of my art. I have had a good, some would even say, great career with my college degree. Interestingly enough, it didn’t have the power to set me free.

Self education has always been a passion of mine. I love to read to expand my knowledge. I have been moved off of my couch to take action by the things I have read. Self education allows me to learn and apply the skill immediately. Of course, I like to apply my new found knowledge the minute I have learned it. Some might call me crazy stretching my limits. As I write this most people are in bed. I find this time is peaceful and inspiring, and a time to apply myself to my passion and causes. So this path of self education brings with it some challenges, and brings with it hope. It brings with it an incredible amount of wisdom to help me reach my goals. I have had two simple goals since I was a child. I want to spend my time with my kids at home. I want to travel and work from anywhere in the world.

I am extremely fortunate to share my passion with my husband. We found that through this self education, we are set for life. Our dreams are goals with time lines. They have become reality, and completely attainable. If we had settled for less, we would have regrets. Our self education has taken us on the new frontier, the internet. We have become skilled internet marketers who help others learn the same thing. We can do it from anywhere in the world. Our system works while we play with our kids.

To say “self education rocks” is an understatement! It is just as challenging as college. I would say it even tests you more. But what an awesome journey. The view is incredible, and the person it makes you become is even better than you could have imagined. At this point with all of our early goals so easily reached, we are focused on helping others reach their goals. It is our turn to help others “self educate” and give back.

The Future of Education – Self Education

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The Future of Education – Self Education

No Comments 22 September 2009

The graduate of 2020, will face a very different world to the graduate of 2009. Just like graduates in history faced new challenges, and new boundaries.

How can our current education encourage graduates that face the future, adjust to it and thrive from it?. 1. Self- Education

Thomas Edison was home schooled, his Teacher thought he was “Stupid,” so he dropped out of traditional education, and his mother taught him. This did not stop Thomas Edison from inventing the Light bulb or the Telephone. Self-Education is imperative in today’s age. An age where the internet is a cheap, and innovative option to a printed school book and examinations based on theory.

Traditional education often covers the basics, but to go beyond the basics, we have to self-educate ourselves. Something far easier now, then in the days Thomas Edison went to school, or before we went online. We can learn “additional” skills from our own sources, that give us a plus which can allow us to excel in our work, seek opportunities and expand these opportunities. Something in an age of global competition, and less secure employment, could be the difference between earning a living, and barely surviving.

Sources are readily available for self-educators. Joining a Library, gives you access to free books, free ebooks are readily available on the internet. Languages could be learnt from friends whose main language is different to ours. Clubs, voluntary organizations and even just plain observing, educate us in ways a school book cannot. Ways that will not cost a fortune, but can like Thomas Edison, help us achieve the impossible and move forward in a World, were many people stop educating themselves. Life is a journey into knowledge, and learning to apply this knowledge could be the difference between thriving and surviving in tomorrow’s new economy.

The Read Aloud Handbook

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The Read Aloud Handbook

No Comments 21 September 2009

For more than two decades, millions of parents and educators have turned to Jim Trelease’s beloved classic to help countless children become avid readers through awakening their imaginations and improving their language skills. Now this new edition of The Read-Aloud Handbook imparts the benefits, rewards, and importance of reading aloud to children of a new generation.

Supported by delightful anecdotes as well as the latest research, The Read- Aloud Handbook offers proven techniques and strategies—and the reasoning behind them— for helping children discover the pleasures of reading and setting them on the road to becoming lifelong readers.

Words Of Wisdom From Ray Bradbury

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Words Of Wisdom From Ray Bradbury

No Comments 21 September 2009

Ray Bradbury is one of those rare individuals whose writing has changed the way people think. His more than five hundred published works — short stories, novels, plays, screenplays, television scripts, and verse — exemplify the American imagination at its most creative.

Once read, his words are never forgotten. His best-known and most beloved books, THE MARTIAN CHRONICLES, THE ILLUSTRATED MAN, FAHRENHEIT 451 and SOMETHING WICKED THIS WAY COMES, are masterworks that readers carry with them over a lifetime. His timeless, constant appeal to audiences young and old has proven him to be one of the truly classic authors of the 20th Century — and the 21st.

Keeping To-Learn Lists

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Keeping To-Learn Lists

No Comments 16 September 2009

By Scott Young

I’m sure most people are familiar with a to-do list. If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, hopefully you have at least one of these on the go, tracking your tasks on paper. But do you have a to-learn list? I recently decided my self-education system needed a bit of cleaning, so creating a to-learn list seemed like a natural result.

If you’re reading a few books a month, you’re already way ahead of most people. But just because you feel you’re doing better than average doesn’t justify a poorly organized approach to teaching yourself. I’ve set up a to-learn list as a way to ensure that the best books are at the top of my stack, not just the ones with the most current hype.

Benefits of a To-Learn List

I’ve just started with this to-learn list but already some of the benefits I see:

  1. Focus on great ideas versus the most popular ones. It’s easy to buy books only from the front of a bookstore. Saving your ideas can get you to push into different subjects that might take more searching.
  2. Split up your interests. If your self-education isn’t organized, it is easy to pick your favorite subjects even if 90% of the book’s material is old. Keeping a to-learn list allows you to explore subjects that are on the fringe of your current understanding.
  3. Create a more varied reading diet. Keeping a to-learn list can help you balance fiction with non-fiction, science with literature and blend different types of books so your reading list doesn’t get stale.

To-Learn Versus To-Do

A to-learn list can’t work the same as a to-do list for a number of reasons. The biggest is simply that a to-do list typically involves things that must be done. Going to work, cleaning your house and picking up the dry cleaning are all necessary. In theory at least, each to-do item you check off means one less to do.

Not so with a to-learn list. Each book you learn opens up the possibility for more learning. If you make a typical checklist format for your to-learn, then it could easily explode in size far faster than you could ever read.

Instead of a checklist, my to-learn list has two parts. The first is a huge brainstorm where I’ve written down everything I want to read and learn from Shakespeare to cognitive psychology, martial arts to being fluent in Hindi. This entire pool of ideas is unmanageable as a list, but it gives me a solid base to work from the next time I need to get more books.

The second part is a stack of about 5-7 ideas I want to chew through next. This is a little over a months worth of reading, and about the size I would need to take from the library or bookstore.

Bookmark It!

Whenever I get an idea for a subject I’d like to learn more about or an author I haven’t read yet, I write down those ideas on my notepad. I can then add this to my to-learn pool for more ideas of books I could read in the future.

To-Read Versus To-Learn

A to-read list is a good idea, but it only encompasses one form of self-education. Keeping a to-learn list means you also need to add in subjects and ideas that you can’t get from a book. Cooking, martial arts and foreign languages can’t be grabbed entirely off the page.

How To Read Better

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How To Read Better

No Comments 15 September 2009

For most people, it is easy to learn to read faster. Your reading rate is often just a matter of habit. But to begin, you may need to try to change some habits and try these tips:

1. Pay attention when you read and read as if it really matters. Most people read in the same way that they watch television, i.e. in an inattentive, passive way. Reading takes effort and you must make the effort. A wise teacher once told me that you can learn anything if you do three things:

PAY ATTENTION

PAY ATTENTION and

PAY ATTENTION.

There are some simple methods that you can use to pay better attention and get more out of your textbook reading time. Different authors call it different things, but many researchers say that you will improve your comprehension if you somehow “preview” the passage before you actually sit down and read every word.

To do a preview you:

  • take 30 to 60 seconds.
  • look over the title of the chapter.
  • look at all the headings, subheadings and marked, italic or dark print.
  • look at any pictures or illustrations, charts or graphs.
  • quickly skim over the passage, reading the first and last paragraph and glancing at the first sentence of every other paragraph.
  • close the book and ask yourself:
  • —What is the main idea?
  • —What kind of writing is it?
  • —What is the author’s purpose?

You might not think that you could possibly answer these questions with so little exposure to the material, but if you do the preview correctly, you should have some very good general ideas. If you have a general idea of what the passage is about before you really read it, you will be able to understand and remember the passage better.

When you finally get to the point where you are actually slowly reading the passage, read in a “questioning” manner -as if you were seaching for something. It sometimes helps if you take the heading or title of a chapter and turn it into a question.

For example, if the heading of a section in the text is “The Causes of the Civil War”, take that title and switch it into a question like: “What are the causes of the Civil War?”. Now you have a goal; something to look for; something to find out. When you are goal-oriented, you are more likely to reach the goal. At least you’ll remember one thing about the text which you have just read.

2. Stop talking to yourself when you read. People talk to themselves in 2 ways, by:

  • vocalizing, which is the actual moving of your lips as you read, and
  • subvocalizing, which is talking to yourself in your head as you silently read.

Both of these will slow you down to the point in which you find that you can’t read any faster than you can speak. Speech is a relatively slow activity; for most, the average speed is about 250 WPM (words per minute).

Reading should be an activity which involves only the eyes and the brain. Vocalization ties reading to actual speaking. Try to think of reading as if you were looking at a landscape, a panorama of ideas, rather than looking at the rocks at your feet.

3. Read in thought groups. Studies have shown that when we read, our eyes must make small stops along the line. Poor readers make many, many more fixations (eyestops) than good readers. Not only does this slow you down, but it inhibits comprehension because meaning is easier to pull from groups of words rather than from individual words or even single letters. Try to read in phrases of three or four words, especially in complete clauses and prepositional phrases. Your mind may internalize them as if the whole phrase is like one big meaning-rich word.

4. Don’t keep re-reading the same phrases. Poor readers habitually read and re-read the same phrase over and over again. This habit of making “regressions” doubles or triples reading time and often does not result in better comprehension. A single careful, attentive reading may not be enough for full comprehension, but is often more effective than constant regressions in the middle of a reading. It is best to work on paying closer attention the first time through. Do a preview first before the careful reading and try the tips I mentioned above. You’ll remember better without the rereading.

5. Vary your reading rate to suit the difficulty and type of writing of the text. Poor readers always read at the same slow rate. An efficient reader speeds up for easier material and slows down for the hard. Some things were not meant to be read quickly at all. Legal material and very difficult text should be read slowly. Easier material and magazines and newspapers can be read quickly. Poetry and plays were meant to be performed, and if not acted out, then at least, spoken out loud orally. This obviously will conflict with good speed reading method which forbids vocalization. Religious writings and scripture were originally written to be recited and listened to by an audience which was likely to be intelligent, but illiterate. The “fun” of poetry, plays, or prayer is not really experienced if you “speed read” the text.


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